NUDE CUISINE

Your eyes may remain wide open when you would hear the children secretly, who are as little as 9 or 10. You must have also seen sharply speaking and amazingly loaded little champs on television. All thanks to our ultra metro media and news papers, who help them grow very quickly. The biggest responsibility of the media is to evaluate any kind of material before they present it to the people. They are often the carrier of social issues, trends and accurate news not stories. Let’s blame the media some other day, but have we ever raised our voices against the nudity they serve in your daily news paper? No! 

Times of India have been an authentic news group for long and now their supplementary edition Ahmedabad Mirror is at your doorsteps every morning. What you get is more than a few celebrities from Bollywood and Hollywood posing in two pieces. This has become the regular content. Why would you need them at all? Before nearly 5-6 years, even adolescences used to hesitate to touch the Gujarat Samachar’s Friday supplement ‘Chitralok’ contained with full size multi-colored celebrity pictures, in presence of their parents. But at present it is unavoidable as the leading news papers print them openly and every single day. They may argue, it is the news and we want to sell. There could be news about anyone but does it really need an attached nude image only? Accepting globalization, urbanization and being open-minded is good, but does it mean we get over our inherited culture and tradition of feminine respect and ethical preservation. How many of our parents do think seriously that what they want to give their child apart from education (which is also constrained to paying fees and hiring a school van only), food, clothing and other comforts? Most of them want their children to become an engineer, a doctor or a CA – how many of us think to pour in some values, ethics, public behavior and civic responsibilities to their children? Why don’t we protest against the local media for providing such immoral material!? I think we must. We need to open our minds rather than being over-open-minded.

Civic Sense

“CIVIC SENSE” 

Reading the article “Towing men and their double standards” in Sunday Times (2 Feb 2008), Getting more attention from citizens is needed this time. It is essential to penalize the violators and keep practicing the towing of vehicles, as that is the way we have in out country. The possible solutions from traffic department are already been addressed in ‘Draw the lines…’ (21 Jan, AM) But as personnel, what can we do, seems easier and implemental. “Why is it that I am the only one who is caught?” – A thought like a gunshot appears when your vehicle is taken away from amongst other 40, parked wrongly just besides. But have you ever thought that other 40 have parked inappropriately, why shouldn’t I park mine correctly? Can we be proud of being a citizen of a developed (so called ‘metro) city but having zero civic sense!? A lot to think about! Self discipline is the word. It wouldn’t be enough to get a uniformed, well structured traffic and parking system, until we start following simple discipline ourselves. Common sense or say civic sense comes before the law practice, as the latter is an imposition and the previous is a willing exercise. 

Parking vehicles in a row, parking them straight and closer to the next vehicle, keep vehicle a little distance if the destination is already crowded, using main stand while parking your two wheelers, parking cars in sub streets rather than parking them on busy roads – these are very simple things that we can follow despite of having clear indications of parking zones. We can easily manage the space we have by keep it organized. Everything depends on a bit of thinking from you and me. Give it a thought before you do anything in public and it may bring a significant change over all.   

 Sneh B

Ahmedabad, 8 February 2008